Rockstar brother recently told me I was a “demanding woman”. This was probably in response to some rant wherein I expressed indignation at not being able (easily) manipulate guide Andrew Hotpants into doing what is best, and by doing what is best, I mean doing things my way.
Cause really, is it too much to ask the man who voluntarily gathers, washes, and folds our laundry to make sure the face cloths are rolled just so in order to resemble either a bunny or dessert cake? I don’t think so.
In any event, I think bro bro’s “demanding woman” was his special way of saying I was bitchy and/or bossy.
Naturally, I took this as a compliment.
Erin Cooks is also a beyotch cut from the same cloth. Another Demanding Woman, in the wake of last week’s engagement announcement, she had this to say in comments:
Well ask and ye shall receive.
But first, a little bit about the ring:
My ring is green
If there is one thing I heard over-and-over growing up, it is that the diamond cartel—like pleat-front pants—is evil. Because my step dad ingrained that into my brain and because I am a hippie, I made sure my diamond was a conflict free. My diamond, which I think came from a Canadian mine, is both glamorous AND socially responsible … just like fabulous little me.
My ring is custom
After researching the forums on PriceScope, a consumer advocate Web site touted as “The Internets #1 diamond and jewelry resource”, Andrew and I decided to check out Brian Gavin Diamonds. Brian Gavin is a fifth generation diamond broker and also? He is awesome. Brian is a Houston-based e-tailer, selling eco diamonds and custom jewelry online. Folks who want to avoid the markups at brick and mortar stores while getting exquisite craftsmanship should definitely consider shopping online for their rings. And if you care about being socially responsible, e-tailers like Brian Gavin Diamonds, WhiteFlash and Blue Nile are no brainers. All their diamonds are conflict free as a matter of course.
My ring has its own glamour shots
Upon completion of my ring—which was custom designed and took about three weeks from start to finish—Brian Gavin Diamonds e-mailed pictures of the finished product. Truly, the ring is as unique and lovely as shown. For those who are curious about it’s vintage look and octagonal shape, the cut is called an “Asscher” and it’s been around since 1902.
And now that we have that out of the way, here you go Erin Cooks. And everybody else, feast your eyes:



















